Fathers Are Not Mere Sperm Partners or Custodians But, Are Greatly Emotional Beings Hidden In A Family
By D N Singh
On this day, the Fathers’ Day, it is an occasion when people normally observe the day as any other day. But the very important factor that misses out, is about a person who normally remain as a gender partner in the family. That is an accepted assumption, otherwise.
One who rarely speaks out about himself but always ready to diligently deliver his duties towards the children, fomenting their emotions, understand everything but hardly his eyes ever refuse the smile the children aspire for.
A father is always a person who ever play a claimant role in the family but taking on him all that postulates the for the good of the entire family.
Father is a silent crusader, taking on each hardship but never broods nor shares his pain with anyone normally. He is like an invisible collage of perseverance and dedication hardly ever finds reflected.
That is father. Besides the emotional proximity with the wife(mother), a father strives to be more attached to a daughter. the unbreakable bond between a father and a daughter and portrays how he works hard not only to protect her and give her a secure future, but also empowers her and strengthens her resolve to pursue her dreams and aspirations.
He supports her dare to dream attitude and nurtures her efforts to carve her own unique path to success. He continues to teach her the true values of aelf-reliance and to fight for what she believes in, driving the message of living life on her terms, rather than adhering to the straitjacketed and sometimes outdated social constructs of society.
Although, both father and mother remain biological partners in parenting, but giving birth is decisively a mother’s part, that does not mean that does not change a man(father) mentally with a fatherhood. It does.
It is wrong to say that, fathers are only play the role of bread earners, giving shelter and paycheck for the family. He does much more than that.
